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We KNOW Relationships

John and Julie Gottman know that building and healing relationships like yours is both an art and a science. Built on decades of award-winning research combined with world-renown therapy expertise, we’ve created a set of powerful tools for individuals, couples, and therapists, to help you build a relationship that lasts.

Why wait any longer?

For Individuals and Couples

What could be more important than building the relationship you deserve? Learn directly from renowned relationship experts from the comfort and privacy of your own home with the new Gottman Relationship Coach.

This dynamic multimedia experience is filled with powerful video tutorials and highly-effective exercises, designed to help you build lasting relationships with the loved ones in your life.


  • Learn directly from renowned relationship experts
  • Interactive videos for you and your partner
  • Based on the Gottman Method’s clinical research
  • Custom bundles, specific to your relationship

Top-Selling Gottman Products
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Gottman Relationship Adviser

A Revolutionary Relationship Wellness Experience, Powered by the Gottman Method

The new digital Relationship Adviser measures the health of your partnership and guides you through tailored programs to strengthen your connection.

All About Conflict Bundle

13 Research-Based Exercises, 32 Exclusive Videos


Drs. John and Julie Gottman are excited to introduce a new collection, focused on dealing with conflict from start to finish. The first program teac...

All About Love Bundle

15 Research-Based Exercises, 43 Exclusive Videos


Learn how to deepen your emotional connection with your partner, build trust, and make time for fun and playfulness every day in this new Gottman Re...

Gottman Assessment

The Legendary Relationship Assessment, 50 Years in the Making

Finally understand exactly what's going on in your relationship with the Gottman Assessment, powered by the legendary Gottman Method.

The Powerful,
Proven Gottman Method
A Global Community
Millions of couples and tens of thousands of clinicians from over 14 countries around the world have benefited from using the Gottman Method to build healthy, lasting relationships.
World-renowned Research
The Gottman Method is the first evidence-driven methodology to truly examine how couples interact using multidimensional statistical analysis.
Groundbreaking Results
From feeling seen and heard and managing conflict to building a life together with your partner, the Gottman Method is exceptionally effective at tackling anything that may be driving you and your partner apart.

I’ve seen a lot of innovation over the past 40 years...but this is honestly a revolutionary marriage between the heart and science of couples’ therapy!

Dr. Nancy Young
Clinician, Costa Mesa

I enjoy enhanced therapeutic planning by using the innovation of the Couples Report that explains specific strengths and challenges.

Dr. John Crossen, MBA
Clinician, Portland

The couples report is incredibly helpful. My couples seems relieved with the well laid out plan and ready to get to work.

Alysha Roll, MSW, LCSW
Clinician, Houston

I really appreciate being able to see the details of each partner’s questionnaires and the ability to see their answers. The site also offers recommendations about what interventions to use with the couple, which will be very helpful for therapists of all levels of experience.

Carrie Cole, M.ED., LPC
Clinician, Houston

I just received my first Relationship Checkup result today and I think you’ll be happy to hear that it definitely exceeds my expectations, with regard to clarity, accuracy, depth, and detail.

Saul Stern, LMFT
Clinician, New York

My clients had a great experience using the Relationship Checkup and found it very user-friendly. In addition, the automatic scoring and personalized feedback reports are a great time saver. I will never hand score an assessment again.

Therese Soudant, LMFT
Clinician, Seattle

This time-saving resource offers a clear and easily presentable description of each partner's current experience of the relationship, and it also points the way for me as a therapist to tailor an effective course of therapy that is best suited for each particular couple.

Jonathan Shippey, M.A., LMFT
Clinician, Louisville

The Enhanced Relationship Checkup and The Love Lab together give me a unique and in-depth look into not only how couples think and feel about their relationship, but also what their emotional experience is as they interact. This understanding helps me pinpoint exact areas of a couple's strength or challenge better than was ever possible. It is invaluable in my work with couples.

Julie Sharon-Wagschal, M.A., LMHC
Psychologist, Amsterdam

The Builder has been a great resource and the perfect tool. As an example, I have an older couple who are down to sessions every 4 to 6 weeks. At this point, they are in maintenance mode. The Builder gives them something to take hold of and use themselves. They use the Builder in different ways to deepen what they learned when we were meeting for weekly sessions. Sometimes, they use it for date nights and bonding time. They love it. It’s been great! Makes my job a lot easier.

Terri Ammirati, M.A., LCPC
Clinician, Illinois

I recommend the Builder and am confident in the work assignments. One client is so enthusiastic that they went ahead of the Repair Work assignment. They came to the session with language and a process-building in their relationship. Another couple received the assignment to do the Stress-Reducing Conversation, and they progressed using a Rituals of Connection conversation. I created a goal assignment to move between the two seamlessly. Looking forward to seeing how the conversation progresses!

Mike Fidler, MSW, RSW
Clinician, Ontario

For Professionals

Looking to enhance the efficacy of time spent with couples? Trying to attract new clients by differentiating and evolving your practice?

With the Gottman Relationship Checkup and the legendary Love Lab, now globally accessible from the Gottman Connect portal, you finally have the tools to give your couples a level of insight they’ve never had.